How To Share The Load of Parenting

Learn how to create balance, fairness, and collaboration as you parent your little ones, and let go of underlying resentment and frustration.


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With Kate Borsato

Kate is a therapist and educator for moms, and leads thousands of parents to find balance, joy, connection, and mental wellness despite the many challenges that come with parenthood.

You feel like the bulk of the parenting responsibilities fall to you. You’re resentful, tired and burnt out. You feel unappreciated.

Learn how to communicate your needs, share the burden equally, and feel relieved to have a game plan that actually works.

This Mini-Course Is For You If...

  • The division of responsibilities feels unfair: You’re the one who researches parenting approaches. It’s you who shops for birthday gifts, answers teacher emails, books the check-ups and searches for new family dinner recipes. It feels like it's all on you. When the little things all add up, resentment bubbles over.  
  • The arguments are non-stop: From small passive aggressive comments to full-blown arguments, the tense moments between you and your partner aren’t exactly few and far between. That “what’s happening to us,” feeling can be just as stressful as the fights.
  • You're full of anger and rage toward your partner: When your baby came into the picture, everything changed (for you at least). You have a constant inner dialogue that's downright angry, usually toward your partner, and you know it's not great for your relationship.

What's Included

Here's What You'll Learn:

How You Got Here

You're not alone in feeling overwhelmed and under-supported. Learn about why this dynamic is so common (yet harmful), where these patterns of unequal parenting came from, and understand how to create a new normal.

How to Create A Respectful and Equal Dynamic

I’m not talking about tallying the diaper changes and making sure they’re even. It’s more about learning how to approach your family responsibilities together, as a team, so that you are both feeling supported, appreciated, and balanced.

How to Develop An Action Plan

You'll learn a system that truly works to help you and your partner create more fairness, equality, and balance in your partnership. No, it doesn't mean you keep score, but rather, you'll learn how to work together so that neither of you feel depleted or resentful.

How To Communicate Effectively

Knowing how to check in, address your concerns respectfully, and navigate those sensitive conversations is key. You’ll learn constructive communication skills in order to steer you toward feeling like a team again. You'll also get a road map for the hardest conversations.

Your Instructor: Kate Borsato

Hey, I'm Kate! I work as a mental health therapist and educator for moms and parents, I run a maternal mental health therapy collective, and I also support parents online with accessible resources and tools just like this workshop. 

I'm a mom of two young daughters, and I know first hand how difficult it is to figure out how to be parents and keep your relationship in tact at the same time. Finding balance feels impossible.

I've dedicated my career to helping moms and families with challenges like anxiety, relationship stress, and finding joy and fulfillment after becoming parents. With the right knowledge, skills and supports, you can absolutely find balance, equality, and mutual appreciation in your relationship, no matter how many parenting demands come your way.

So happy to support you,



Have a Question? Try these FAQ's

1. How long do I have access to the course?

Forever, and you'll get all course updates, too. You're are a busy family and the last thing you need is another time-sensitive commitment.

2. What is the format of the course? What can I expect?

I find that a combination of me sharing slides with information as well as plenty of examples, plus me teaching alongside this is most helpful for parents. You can just hit play on the video whenever you have a moment. You can also skip the video and just listen to the audio if you're more of a podcast-type.

3. Can my partner watch too?

Oh of course! I encourage that, actually.

4. Does it makes sense to take this alone, without my partner?

Yes. You'll notice that my voice is often directed to mothers. This course doesn't blame dads or partners in any way, but generally, mom is the parent who is feeling the incredible weight of motherhood and she is searching for help. You could listen to this alone, and then decide how much you want to share with your partner.

5. Can I buy this now and watch it later?

Yup, you bet. Many people will actually watch it over again in the future too. It's great to have this on hand for when you need to brush up on the material again down the road.

6. Do I need to take notes, or is there a hand out to help keep track of key info?

You'll get a mini-course workbook with the workshop outline and key pieces of info with you so that you don't have to worry about jotting down everything I said. There's also some reflection questions included.

Course Outline

Take a look at the 4 learning modules below. You're learn everything you need to know to create more fairness, appreciation and balance in your relationship (and say goodbye to resentment).

Enroll For Just $57

Join me in this self-paced, to-the-point program that will help you move past resentment and overwhelm, and create more balance, respect, and harmony as parents.